Has it ever happened to you that someone does something incredibly rude to you and yet they seem absolutely oblivious about their transgression? For example, someone standing too close behind you in line, or perhaps someone speaking too loud on the phone. I hate to break it to you, but you and I may be inadvertently guilty of it at times. But don’t worry, on today’s episode, I am joined by Brian Apfel to discuss how to avoid doing it ourselves and how to respectfully confront it when we see it in others. You are listening to TGB.

Today, I have the pleasure of having my good friend Brian Apfel. Brian is a Father, Husband, and a Gentleman. We will be discussing the curious and careless habit of being unintentionally rude. Let’s explore some examples and possible steps to take to avoid being THAT GUY!

Check out Brian's work and follow him here:
Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/johnhulen
Twitter- johnhulen
Podcast- ‎Relationships & Revenue with John Hulen on Apple Podcasts

TikTok- @Bearded_Brian
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Instagram- @Bearded_Brian
https://www.instagram.com/bearded_brian/
Podcast- Dynasty of Dads
‎Dynasty of Dads on Apple Podcasts

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Supporters (Baron & Viscount Level)
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Stephen Johnston
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Special thanks to our team:
Tamesh Bahadur
Alberto Mella
Joe McMillen
Taylor Nauta
Khristopher Rodriguez
Bill Strutner
Rusty Valle

Music:
Billy Mays III [Infinite Third]
Infinite Third
Joey Pecoraro
https://www.youtube.com/joeypecoraro

On this episode of TGB, I am joined by the author and coach John Hulen. He has developed a formula called The F6 Formula, which will help you identify and improve on a variety of areas that you may have been neglecting since getting married.

Check out John Hulen's work and follow him here:
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Podcast- https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relationships-revenue-with-john-hulen/id1516363435

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Executive Producer: Toby Purisima
Producer: Jennifer Sepulveda

Supporters (Baron & Viscount Level)
Guillaume Durand
John Livingstone
John Beninate
Pat Watson
Stephen Johnston
Tommy Abrahamson

Special thanks to our team:
Tamesh Bahadur
Alberto Mella
Joe McMillen
Taylor Nauta
Khristopher Rodriguez
Bill Strutner
Rusty Valle

Music:
Billy Mays III [Infinite Third]
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-ykxFJMOK8u4FkqMahzTfw
Joey Pecoraro
https://www.youtube.com/joeypecoraro

Wouldn't you wish gift-giving was a stress-free activity? Is it easy to shop for gifts for your family? How much pressure do we endure as an impending holiday approaches and we haven't found the right gift?!

We have good news! We share our top strategies for Stress-free Gift-giving.
We bring you our Gift-Giving-Guide and Good Guidance for Great Gentlemen #AlliterationFuego (Good Grief!!)

On this episode of The Gentlemen's Brotherhood, Juan Sepulveda and Alberto unwrap (PUN ALERT!!) their tried and tested gift-giving strategies. Their years of of gift-giving blunders will save you the unnecessary stress when shopping for gifts for the people you love... You're welcome. ;)

Do you have your own strategies to choose the right gifts? We want to hear from you. Share those with us in the comments section. (You could be saving a Brother's life/marriage/friendship, etc.)

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Producer: Jennifer Sepulveda

Supporters (Baron & Viscount Level)
Guillaume Durand
John Livingstone
John Beninate
Pat Watson
Stephen Johnston
Tommy Abrahamson

Special thanks to our team:
Tamesh Bahadur
Alberto Mella
Joe McMillen
Taylor Nauta
Khristopher Rodriguez
Bill Strutner
Rusty Valle

Music:
Billy Mays III [Infinite Third]
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-ykxFJMOK8u4FkqMahzTfw
Joey Pecoraro
https://www.youtube.com/joeypecoraro

Comedian Zoltan Kaszas joins us in a funny and candid conversation about the Modern Male. This celebrated comedian, who has an amazing talent for observational comedy, has a stand-up comedy special titled just that... "Modern Male". You may have seen him before on @DryBarComedy with his hilarious set about his overweight cat Jessica.

We invited him to join us after he published in his YouTube Channel (@ZoltanKaszas) a funny, yet insightful reaction video about Harry Styles being featured on the cover of Vogue Magazine (@AmericanVogue) and people's interesting reaction to it.
(Watch the full reaction video here: https://youtu.be/b5i_qQ3RD98)

Join us in this candid conversation with this talented comedian as we explore the serious -and sometimes funny- side of behaving like a man in today's society.

Check out Zoltan Kaszas' comedy and follow him on social media. You can thank us later. Connect with Zoltan here:

YouTube- https://www.youtube.com/zoltankaszas
Web- https://www.zoltancomedy.com/
Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/zoltancomedy/
Twitter- https://twitter.com/ZoltanCOMEDY
Podcast-http://thisweekinzoltan.podomatic.com/

Highlight Reel (Our favorite Zoltan videos):
Zoltan Kaszas "Modern Male" (Full Special) https://youtu.be/VUuzkA0Qg6U
Zoltan Kaszas "Why cats are better than dogs" https://youtu.be/jTf03_rzVt0

There are a lot of funny moments and great lessons in this episode. We hope you enjoy it.

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Executive Producer: Toby Purisima
Producer: Jennifer Sepulveda

Supporters (Baron & Viscount Level)
Guillaume Durand
John Livingstone
John Beninate
Pat Watson
Stephen Johnston
Tommy Abrahamson

Special thanks to our team:
Tamesh Bahadur
Alberto Mella
Joe McMillen
Taylor Nauta
Khristopher Rodriguez
Bill Strutner
Rusty Valle

Music:
Billy Mays III [Infinite Third]
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-ykxFJMOK8u4FkqMahzTfw
Joey Pecoraro
https://www.youtube.com/joeypecoraro

On this episode of The Gentlemen's Brotherhood, I give you a tool to deal with Challenges in life and stressful situations. A tool that has served me come out the other end victorious.

Have you been going through something difficult? Need help staying afloat in this chaotic environment? Our START formula could be just what you need to come out the other end successful.

There are a lot of great lessons in this episode and we hope you find it inspiring.

Connect with The Gentlemen's Brotherhood here:
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Executive Producer: Toby Purisima
Producer: Jennifer Sepulveda

Supporters (Nobleman & Gentleman Level)
Guillaume Durand
John Livingstone
John Beninate
Pat Watson
Stephen Johnston
Tommy Abrahamson

Special thanks to our team:
Tamesh Bahadur
Joe McMillen
Alberto Mella
Khristopher Rodriguez
Bill Strutner
Rusty Valle

Music:
Billy Mays III
Joey Percoraro

We should strive to be informed citizens. Citizens who can not only engage in a civilized conversation with others but also make the necessary decisions to help their community.

On this episode of TGB, we discuss voting your conscience.

What virtues are involved in your effort to vote in this election?
How can you ensure that you are not compromising your beliefs when voting?

There are a lot of great lessons in this episode and we hope you find it inspiring.

Connect with The Gentlemen's Brotherhood here:
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Producer: Jennifer Sepulveda

Supporters (Nobleman & Gentleman Level)
Guillaume Durand
John Livingstone
John Beninate
Pat Watson
Stephen Johnston
Tommy Abrahamson

Men are stronger together but unfortunately many of us turn to isolation in moments of challenger. In The Gentlemen's Brotherhood, we believe that challenges make the man and that we are much stronger when we band together to solve those problems. When we unite, we can witness the challenges shaping us and collaborate to come out the other end stronger and wiser.

On this episode of The Gentlemen's Brotherhood, I am joined by the founders of HeRose Men's Mastermind, a group of men who come together to pursue perfection together. Sammy Villanueva and Brandon Holder are the men behind this mastermind group and will help us explore ways in which we can defy any limiting preconceptions of what being a man is all about.

Our conversation revolved mostly around men coming together and being vulnerable, allowing themselves to express their emotions freely and become stronger in the process.

There are a lot of great lessons in this episode and we hope you find it inspiring.

Connect with The HeRose Team here:
Web- https://weareherose.com/
Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/weareherose/
LinkedIn- https://www.linkedin.com/in/sammy-villanueva/
Podcast- https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/underground-herose-podcast/id1491412505

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Supporters (Nobleman & Gentleman Level)
Guillaume Durand
John Livingstone
John Beninate
Pat Watson
Stephen Johnston
Tommy Abrahamson

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On this episode of The Gentlemen's Brotherhood, I sit down with Pablo Gonzalez, a Human Connection Expert, who like me, was fortunate enough to find an amazing woman to partner with... one who brought home more bacon. Join us to explore this cultural shift and how a gentleman should deal with it.

Connect with Pablo Gonzalez here:
Web- https://connectwithpablo.com/
Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/connectwithpablo/
LinkedIn- https://www.linkedin.com/in/pablo-gonzalez-4333b42/
Podcast- https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/chief-executive-connector/id1489534133?uo=4

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Executive Producer: Toby Purisima
Producer: Jennifer Sepulveda

Supporters (Nobleman & Gentleman Level)
Guillaume Durand
John Livingstone
John Beninate
Pat Watson
Stephen Johnston
Tommy Abrahamson

While having conversations with other men, I have come across a habit that has the potential of derailing conversations or even worse, of leaving a negative impression. Today we address the "One up Man". I'm sure you have seen this before, you are sharing a story with someone and almost before you can finish telling it, they have a bigger, bolder, more brutal story to share with you. As if it were a competition. Today we are helping you become a better gentleman by being a better communicator.

I wanted to take a moment to give a special thanks to our supporters on Patreon. They help us create content that helps and inspire men to be better. When you join our Patreon Campaign, your support gives you instant access to a VIP look behind the scenes in our studio. Get exclusive previews of future content, vote on topics, get access to videos and podcast episodes before they are published, and as a BONUS, gain access to a secret podcast called "The Chamber". To learn more about this exclusive access, visit Patreon.com/juansepulveda

Host: Juan Sepulveda
Guest Host: Tamesh Bahadur

Executive Producer: Toby Purisima

Producer: Jennifer Sepulveda

Supporters (Nobleman & Gentleman Level) 
Guillaume Durand
John Livingstone
Pat Watson
Stephen Johnston
Tommy Abrahamson

A properly run museum will feature only the artwork that makes sense to display in their facilities. There are millions of artists with an infinity of styles but a discerning curator can sift through the never-ending selection to give prominence to the right works of art. You, my friend, are the curator of the museum of your life and as such, responsible for selecting only the people who will bring value to you. 

Today, Alberto and I will offer you 7 tips to fill your life’s museum with only the finest, most deserving works of art. Your friends. 

To support our work, please visit https://www.patreon.com/JuanSepulveda

A Special thanks to these special supporters:

Accepting a Compliment | How should a gentleman handle flattery?

On this episode of TGB Podcast, I sat down with my friend Tamesh Bahadur to discuss how a gentleman accepts a compliment. We recognize that this is not easy for everyone, so we decided to compile a list of Dos and Don’ts that can help you give and receive compliments in a more natural, confident, and enjoyable way. We hope that you find these tips useful and put them to practice in your daily life. 

• We would love to hear from you:
  • Are you comfortable giving and receiving compliments? 
  • Do you have anything you do to deflect or accept a compliment from someone?
  • Share your story with us in the comments or on our Facebook Group. 

This episode is made possible in part by 

In this conversation, we discuss the importance of maintaining a balance between Courage and courtesy while engaging in conversations with others. We highlight the importance of having the courage to engage in challenging conversations without sacrificing relationships. There is no need to sacrifice courtesy at the altar of courage. 

In this episode, I am joined by my good friend Alberto Mella. A public speaker, business coach, and a modern gentleman. He is a frequent contributor to The Gentlemen’s Brotherhood. You can learn more about his work by visiting: AlbertoMella.com

Sponsor

This episode of The Gentlemen's Brotherhood is made possible by Podcast Movement.

A Model Gentleman

A Model Gentleman is a man who is able to lead by example. On this episode, I introduce you to a man who served as inspiration for the creation of The Gentlemen's Brotherhood. I once knew a man, who through his very presence, would make others comfortable. A man who regardless of his economic or social status, would treat everyone with dignity and respect. A man always preceded by his reputation. I had the honor of getting to know this man well and to have privileged access to him on a frequent basis. I got to see how his character was unwavering through the ups and downs that life brought him. He didn’t just talk about being courteous, he modeled the behavior for those around him. Through his actions, he was able to inspire other people to walk with their heads held high, even in their moments of doubt.

"No job is ever beneath you. Every job is honorable and should be treated as such”

This man gave me my first job. He was the first person to show me the value of hard work. He owned a small restaurant and helped me understand the noble relationship between a man and his job. Working with him I understood that there was no job beneath him. He would be the first one to roll his sleeves and do the hard work that others would hesitate to do. I will never forget him saying to me “no job is ever beneath you. Every job is honorable and should be treated as such”. I remember that in occasions when men didn’t honor their word and follow through on their promises, he still kept his word. One quality I really admired of this man is that he would be assertive while remaining courteous. He had this curious ability to speak his mind without being abrasive. A quality which I have noticed has become rarer in our society as time goes by. He had a favorite expression that said “Being courageous doesn’t replace being courteous” and he really lived that expression. I remember him having disagreements with vendors or clients while remaining respectful and courteous. I really admired how despite his gentle manners, he still retained a commanding authority. He never came across as weak or vulnerable and yet he never took advantage of that.

Did you enjoy this episode? Do you see the importance of inspiring others to live like Model Gentlemen?

If so, please help us reach more people with this message. We invite you to share this podcast with as many men as possible, by sharing it through social media. Another way to help is to leave us a rating and review on iTunes. Thank you for helping us re-discover The Lost Art of The Gentleman. For iTunes review, visit: www.TheGentlemensBrotherhood.com/iTunes Thank you, Juan Sepúlveda  

  Photo Credits: "Ben Franklin Statue" by Alexandra Fleischman for The Daily Pennsylvanian

The Gentlemen’s Brotherhood Podcast Episode 1

I have been proudly working on the development of this project because it is something I think fills a gap in our society. The vision for this project has continued to evolve as I have become aware of how my education, live experience, and resources enable me to help others. For as long as I remember, I have been passionate about developing myself and helping others in the process. Today, I am proud to reveal one additional phase of this initiative. I am proud to introduce you to The Gentlemen’s Brotherhood Podcast*, which will be an additional tool to help you grow as a gentleman and reach your full potential. It is only then when you will have the most impact in your family, community, and society.

WHAT YOU WILL FIND IN THIS EPISODE:

• A quick introduction of The Vision of The Gentlemen’s Brotherhood
• Initial Credo of The Gentlemen’s Brotherhood
• How you are crucial to the success of civility in our society
• How to become an official member of The Gentlemen’s Brotherhood

SPECIAL THANKS

Because showing gratitude is good for you.

• To my lovely wife Jennifer for being so supportive and for her great wisdom.
• Billy Mays III for inspiring us through his music. Some of the songs you will hear in the podcast are courtesy of Infinite Third.
• Kimanzi Constable and Michael Nunes for contributing inspiring articles to our Articles for gentlemen like you.